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I have a question:我要问大家一件事:Who here remembers when they first realized在座的各位谁还记得当自己第一次意识到they were going to die?自己有一天会死去时那一刻的感受?I do. I was a young boy,我还记得,那时我还是个小男孩and my grandfather had just died,我的祖父刚刚过世了,and I remember a few days later lying in bed at night记得几天后的一个夜晚,我躺在床上trying to make sense of what had happened.是这回想之前所发生的一切What did it mean that he was dead?去世到底意味着什么?Where had he gone?他去哪了?It was like a hole in reality had opened up有点像现实中有个洞打开and swallowed him.把他吞了。But then the really shocking question occurred to me:但那时对我而言,有个震撼的问题是:If he could die, could it happen to me too?如果他会死去,同样的事也会发生在我身上吗?Could that hole in reality open up and swallow me?现实中真有个洞打开并把我吞下吗?Would it open up beneath my bed它会在我的床底下打开and swallow me as I slept?并在我睡着的时候把我吞下吗?Well, at some point, all children become aware of death.嗯,某种程度而言,所有的孩子开始意识到死亡。It can happen in different ways, of course,当然,它会以不同的方式发生,and usually comes in stages.并且通常会在某个阶段到来。Our idea of death develops as we grow older.随着我们年龄的增长,我们对死亡的观念逐渐形成。And if you reach back into the dark corners并且如果你回想起of your memory,你记忆中的最黑暗的角落时,you might remember something like what I felt你或许会想起和我感受相同的的一些事情when my grandfather died and when I realized在我祖父去世的时侯我意识到it could happen to me too,同样事情也会发生在我身上,that sense that behind all of this背后所有这一切的感受the void is waiting.是空虚的等待。And this development in childhood在童年时代的这种发展reflects the development of our species.反应了人类的发展。Just as there was a point in your development就像你生命中的某一时刻as a child when your sense of self and of time还是小孩的时候,对自我和时间的认知became sophisticated enough变得十分复杂for you to realize you were mortal,你意识到你难逃一死,so at some point in the evolution of our species,所有在人类进化的某个时刻,some early humans sense of self and of time前人对自我和时间的认知became sophisticated enough开始变得复杂for them to become the first human to realize,然后成为第一批意识到,;Im going to die.;“我终将会死去。”的人们。This is, if you like, our curse.如果你能接受,这是我们的诅咒。Its the price we pay for being so damn clever.那是我们对料知死亡所付出的代价。We have to live in the knowledge我们不得不生活在that the worst thing that can possibly happen最坏的的事情将会发生的状态下,one day surely will,这一天当然会来,the end of all our projects,终结我们所有的计划,our hopes, our dreams, of our individual world.我们的希望,梦想,也会带走我们的一片天。We each live in the shadow of a personal我们每个人生活在自己的apocalypse.末日阴影下。And thats frightening. Its terrifying.那时很吓人,很恐怖的。And so we look for a way out.所以我们试图寻找一个出路。And in my case, as I was about five years old,以我为例,在我5岁左右的时候,this meant asking my mum.我去问我的妈妈。Now when I first started asking现在当我开始问到what happens when we die,我们死亡时会发生什么,the grown-ups around me at the time我周围的大人们那个时候answered with a typical English mix of awkwardness会带着尴尬的and half-hearted Christianity,基督教的经典语句来回答我,and the phrase I heard most often我最常听到的词是was that granddad was now祖父现在;up there looking down on us,;”在天上看着我们“and if I should die too, which wouldnt happen of course,并且如果我也死去,当然现在不会发生,then I too would go up there,那时我也会到天上去,which made death sound a lot like让死亡听起来像an existential elevator.一部存在的升降电梯。Now this didnt sound very plausible.现在听起来不在是那么的真实可信。I used to watch a childrens news program at the time,那时候我通常会看儿童的新闻节目,and this was the era of space exploration.那时是个太空探索的时代。There were always rockets going up into the sky,经常会有火箭冲向蓝天,up into space, going up there.进入太空。But none of the astronauts when they came back但是没有一个从太空归来的航天员ever mentioned having met my granddad提及我见到了我的祖父or any other dead people.或其它死去的人。But I was scared,但那时我很害怕,and the idea of taking the existential elevator乘坐可能存在的升降电梯to see my granddad去见我的祖父sounded a lot better than being swallowed相比在我睡梦中巨大的空间吞噬by the void while I slept.的想法更容易接受。And so I believed it anyway,所以我就相信了,even though it didnt make much sense.尽管它没有任何意义。And this thought process that I went through我小时候就有这种思考模式as a child, and have been through many times since,从那时候起发生过很多次,including as a grown-up,长大后也是,is a product of what psychologists call这被心理学家称之为a bias.偏误。Now a bias is a way in which we systematically偏误有自己的流程get things wrong,让我们按照错误的方式思考事物ways in which we miscalculate, misjudge,计算错误,判断错误,distort reality, or see what we want to see,扭曲现实,或者只看到了我们想看到的东西。201507/384394I just was in India and here in this room 我刚从印度回来Oh my gee, and now Im in 而现在我回到国内Philadelphia hearing from Colin Powell the same message 在费城又听到科林·鲍威尔讲相同的理念And I said to myself I think Im getting it here 我心想 我算是找到自己追求的东西了I think Im understanding what is coming through me 我认为我理解了 我将经历一些什么and so Ill tell you what I went back to Oracle 猜猜发生了什么 我回到甲骨文and I talked to my boss, the CEO there 我同我的老板讲and I said you know, weve got to create a foundation 我们应当建一个基金会weve got to do all these things that General Powell said 我们应当按照鲍威尔将军说的做and he said, youre right and were going to do it 老板说 你很对 就这么办吧And all of a sudden I found myself 突然间 一切就这样达成了in the day, morning time 在白天 早上putting computers in schools, wiring them 将电脑运往学校 建立连接and training teachers and working with kids 并对老师和学生进行培训and then afternoon I was building products and building market and building technology 而在下午 则是创造产品 创造市场 创造科技and it was awesome 这很棒And I said I think this is what I want to do 我心想 这就是我想做的I kind of have both things going on, this is exciting 两者同时进行 这很令人兴奋And then I got a call from General Powell, and General Powell said Marc 然后鲍威尔将军给我打了一个电话 他说 马克I just adopted MacFarland Middle School in Washington DC 我刚认领了华盛顿的麦克法兰中学You need to go put those computers in there 你给我弄点电脑过来and I said, yes sir General, Ill get it done 我回答说 是 将军阁下 我定会完成任务And I took my three top engineers 我于是分派了手下三名最得力的工程师led by Jim Cavalieri and 100 computers 由吉姆·卡瓦列里领导 带着一百台电脑set them all out there 赶往学校and they were y and it was a hot day out there in Washington DC when they arrived 他们到了学校 当时华盛顿的天气很炎热hot like this, may be hotter 就像今天这样 或许更热Think, they said it was about 110 degrees out 他们说外面有大约110华氏度And they had to bring those computers up three flights of stairs 电脑需要步行运上三楼and we called our local office to make sure 我们打电话给当地办事处that our employees were there to help them. We have a big office 要求我们的员工去帮他们in Bethesda Maryland 我们在马里兰贝塞斯达有一个大办事处201601/422589

And what you need to do is to honor that 你所需要做的 是尊重这个事实to understand it, to unearth it 去理解它 去挖掘它to listen to this other voice 去倾听这个相反的声音All right, Im losing this now, because 我现在要把帽子摘掉otherwise its coming off in a dramatic fashion at the wrong time 否则它肯定会在错误的时候 以很丢脸的方式飞出去I know. I worked on this hair for a long time, so 我知道 我头发很久前就这样了I had to bust it out 我需要去生发了You have, which is a rare thing 你们有一个很特别的东西that ability and the responsibility to listen to the dissent in yourself也就是 倾听自身异议的能力和责任to at least give it the floor, because it is the key至少是让它展现出来 因为这很关键not only to consciousness, but to real growth 不仅对意识而言 也对实际生长而言To accept duality is to earn identity 接受二元性 才能获得个人身份And identity is something that you are constantly earning 个人身份是你们一直在努力获得的事物It is not just who you are 它不仅仅是你是谁It is a process that you must be active in 这是一个你必须积极参与的过程Its not just parroting your parents or the thoughts of your learned teachers 这不仅仅是机械模仿父母或学的老师的思维方式It is now more than ever about understanding yourself so you can become yourself现在需要更多地理解自己 从而让你成为真正的自己I talk about this contradiction, and this tension 我讲了这个矛盾 这个张力theres two things I want to say about it 关于这个 我有两点要说的One, it never goes away 一是 它永远不会消失And if you think that achieving something, if you think that solving something如果你认为达到什么高度 解决什么问题if you think a career or a relationship will quiet that voice 或者拥有什么职业或关系就能平息这个声音it will not 那你就错了If you think that happiness means total peace 如果你认为幸福就是完全的平静you will never be happy 那你将永远无法幸福Peace comes from the acceptance of the part of you that can never be at peace 平静来自于对你内心深处永远无法平静这一事实的接受201602/427066

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